I'm sure her comment really stung and I'm sorry. Be glad you heard her opinion before giving her the quilt. Kids are funny...just when you think you know them...
I'm sure your quilt would be loved by many...perhaps a very good friend?
I've seen some pretty black, white, and red quilts on this board..perhaps the posters will supply you the links.
http://www.quiltingboard.com/t-40325-1.htm
Here is a great red, black, white collection:
http://www.connectingthreads.com/col...ics__L112.html