How true, Kathy N---our love for our craft of quilting is not recognized by those who don't sew. I usuallly deliver what I think is the perfect gift with, "It gave me great joy to make this for you. If it isn't your taste, feel free to pass it on to someone who will enjoy it." I also make items, pack them away and then let recipients choose from the stash when a gift is in order. Sometimes I hear, "Oh, grandma, I love this, but could you make it in (color choices). It seems to work well.