I'm just wondering why we are "Blaming" a person for having her own style?? That doesn't mean she loves you any less in fact be proud she's learning to say what she likes and dislikes. Someday that may come in handy when someone tries to make her do something that isn't quite right and she has the courage to voice her opnion and not just go along so she doesn't hurt anyone's feelings. If she was nasty then she might have to be alittle more tactful but not mean.