It does hurt my feellings and I am getting to the point of not feeling obligated to make gifts for family members that do not appreciate them.
I have made special gifts for baby showers, made sure they were in the mail before the shower, and the last 3 have not even bothered to say thank you.
I at least thought they would let us know the baby came into the world fine and what they named it. IMO these people were just looking for a gift, nothing else :-( , and I refuse to be used again.
I make a lot of charity quilts and we never know what happens to them, and I understand that. When it is a family member it is completely different, just my opinion!!!!!