I have made two baby quilts for the daughters of friends. I mailed the quilts to the friends to give to the daughters and they emailed to let me know how "fabulous" they were. Never heard a word from the daughters. I don't do that anymore. If I am invited to a baby shower I will make and take one. I have plenty of other elderly folks that need a throw to waste my time and fabric on folks who cannot even thank you. That is my story and I am sticking to it!