I can totally relate to all of your stories. I made a quilt recently for my nephew's new son. Never heard a word. I'd like to say I don't care, but a simple thank you would do wonders. I will continue to make them and give them away tho. I just won't be holding my breath waiting on a thank you from people who have no manners. Most of my quilts go to Quilts For Kids. I'm positive they appreciate them. If you don't expect a thank you and you get one, all the better.