Don't feel bad. I handquilted my sister a queen size cheaters cloth quilt. It took 9 of us (experienced hand quilters, aunts and friends) quilting 3 days to get it done as an anniversary gift. She divorced, lived with another guy for 4 years and LEFT IT WITH HIM! because he didn't have any bedding. I will NEVER make her another thing! And I told her so but it didn't faze her. She values nothing! Can you tell I am angry!