i made a baby quilt for someone and handed it to her husband so i knew she had recieved it. i never heard a word from her about it. or from her mom even when we were talking quilts and i refused to ask-it's like digging for compliments. but several months later we were both at a baby shower and i had made a quilt for the gift and she was using the quilt i had made for her son. in the conversation she said it was her faorite. i've come to the conclusion that some people don't write thank you notes-period. i make them because i want to and if they don't like it then tough!