This topic has brought me tears, made me laugh, made me say "ah-ha", made me think. Thank you Patrice for your words to explain, It is comforting to know you guys are taking care of us. Unfortunately, our dearest friends who receive goodies from us took offense and it wasn't meant for them. Like Patrice said, we can all read, I see where one who got help and is needy will help another, I have a stash but one day I may need to ask for a particular fabric, and I will too you guys LOL, but when I receive it I will pay it forward. I have already built a relationship with others who share. So please don't be afraid to ask if you need it, do it....when you see someone offer, jump on it. It's only for those who continually make us read your posts on every subject every day. I will be posting more next week. better keep an eye out.lol. Happy quilting everyone. I post for anyone who needs it to PM me and I get those, have never been spammed or solicited unexpectedly. Hope I never do. TTFN