I have to say I always get excited if I have fabric that might help someone out, especially if I know I won't use the fabric myself. I hate to let something sit on my shelves for years when I know someone else could use it. The few times I have sent others fabric or whatnot, I did it without being asked, or else with them offering to pay for it (which takes all the fun out of sending it, in my opinion.) Anyway, it does come down to OUR right to refuse requests and we should not feel bad when we do. Likewise, it is our choice to help another and hopefully get a heartfelt thanks on the other end. If we don't, we can choose not to help that person out again - but hopefully it won't taint us helping others out who would appreciate our generousity.