After arguing with my husband how the money will be spend...lol...I would set up all my kids with their own house and trust....then I would probably argue some more with my husband on how the house we want to build should look like, and what to do with our old one...lol....Maybe I should be thinking more on how to avoid these arguments ( I make it sound really bad...but we don't really argue that much because I usually get my way lol), then thinking about the spending....lol....I do know, that I would have a huge sewing room......maybe I should keep the old house for that purpose.....hmmmmmmmmm that's something to think about....lol