All I can say is that it does get better, truly. May I also suggest that you find this book,
"Letting Go: A Parents' Guide to Understanding the College Years." (
http://www.amazon.com/Letting-Go-Fif...6553381&sr=1-1) I found it very helpful in knowing what to expect -- both at my end and for my son.
Many years have passed since my oldest left home. I divorced, went back to school myself, and then met and married a most wonderful man. I treasure the time we have together "just us," as well as when one or the other of our children / grandchildren come to visit. You'll get there, too. [Hopefully you won't have to take as many steps to get there as I did, though!]
In the meantime, think of all the time you have to quilt now!! :lol: