Men can be so thoughtless at times. No, men don't have the market cornered on that, women can be that way too. Don't let it get you down. And DON'T throw away the man quilt. Give it to him, tell him you made it especially for him so that he could always be wrapped in the love that's sewn in every stitch--even if it was done by a crazy quilting woman. And say it with a smile. He'll get the message. Instead of being hurt by what he said, turn it into a joke and you'll both be better off for it.