As an older woman now I find it hard to move as I once could. Sometimes people see me as stand offish. But I am in pain most of the time. It is hard to smile but I force myself to be kind and sweet to those I can get close to. If you ask I will share tips Ive learned along the way. Try sitting by an older lady and ask questions as to how long shes been quilting what her faviote colors are, etc.
Good luck.