I dont think that she hasnt put it out because she dosnt like it, I think its because she loves it, knows how hard you worked on it, and does not want anything to get spilled, or anything else to happen to it. My quilts seem to walk out the door when ever my mom & sister came over. When I went to their homes, I didnt see them, and asked where my run a way quilts went. They told me they put them up so no one else would use them. When they did take them out, they thought of me, it was kind of a personal thing for them, and they didnt want to share them. Try not to get your feelings hurt, I know she loves her quilts. :-D