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Old 08-15-2010, 02:29 PM
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Ms. Shawn
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Originally Posted by kristen0112
Just have to vent my son Peter has his friend over to play they are both 11 years old. This other boy is - difficult? He isn't respectful to adults, when I tell him not to do something he rolls his eyes at me. If he were my child he'd be in so much trouble for doing that to me or anyone else. He back talks to adults and others, tries to shift blame when he's been caught doing something...the list goes on. I know you're thinking send the child home and don't let him influence your kid right? Peter has trouble making and keeping friendships. He plays with kids at school but doesn't really attach and become best friends. So, I worry...
I invited his parents out boating with us a couple of weekends ago it was an eye opener. He's an only child and the parents seem to not parent him but 'encourage' him to make the right choices. The mom is REALLY into her two dogs which she brought with them boating. She talks to them lovingly and affectionately like children, it seemed that their well being and needs really came first before husband and child. It was interesting. They were almost 2 hours late because the mom kept forgetting stuff at home, first the tie downs for the dogs, then whether she locked the doors to the house. So, I kind of get why the boy is the way he is... Okay I am done venting he's only here for a few hours I can handle it :-\
I really feel for you as I have been there and done that 3x's over and now sometimes with any new friends that my 15 yr old daughter brings home. I treat all children as I do my own and will not put up with disrespect! But sometimes know matter how caring you are or what you do it will not change things. I suggest letting the other child know your rules and what you expect at your house! Just trying to help. Ms. Shawn :mrgreen: :thumbup: :XD:
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