No you have every right to go get your quilt. I can't believe it would take her over a month to get to yours. I have friends that put their quilts in and get them back in a couple weeks. And I know the quilter is exceptionally busy because we only have two local quilters. That amount of time is rediculous, usually it is done on a first come first done basis, so she couldn't of had a 4 month back log.