yep, I helped dad when he was alive, then had mom for 3 yrs, then just finished with my sister who died in March from multiplemyeloma, bone marrow cancer, she was only 60 yrs old. Gave the last 8 yrs of my life for my sister would do it all over again. Have bad health myself, sister cried and said whos gonna help you, Im not gonna be here.. and I said They will be provided when time comes. miss them all and yes it took me good while after each died to get life back on course.