We have been married for 31 years this October 27th. We have stressful times, like any marriage; but we've always worked thru them together. We've always told our kids, "Marriage can be one of the toughest jobs you ever have; work on it everyday, compromise when needed, talk your problems out bewtween the two of you, and share the strength you build." We are now both retired, and enjoying life together in our retirement years.