We will be married 45 years in November, I can't believe that many years have gone by, some very bad and some very good years. Sometimes it's been an uphill battle and sometimes we coast, but I've always enjoyed the ride. You have to remember to Always be warmed by each other's smile, always take time to walk and talk, always know deep down you're each others best friend, we've done the above all these years and here we are. When my daughter got married in April, I wrote a poem for her and included the above, I think its good advise.