My Hubby and I have been married 39 years this past July. I am sure there were times we both could have throwen in the towel. But we stuck it out. Now as we grow old togeather we realized that God had His hand on this marriage all the time. We have two daughters who both have been married and divorced. It happens even when parents set the standards.They both have wonderful godly husbands now. My husband and I often tell people. Yep, John and I will get a divorce when we figure each other out. And that is not likely to happen. LOL I have MS and I don't have any idea what I would do without my hubby. God knew what He was doing when He created John for me. And I praise Him everyday. You youngings hang in there it is worth the time and effert. You can't change the other person ,only yourself.