Don't allow any one into your house. Meet at a Church, Wal-Mart parking lot. Some Wal-Marts have plugs attache to the light poles. You could even meet at a bank. The point is NEVER NEVER ,NEVER LET a stranger come to your house. If you live alone, When you speak to them on the phone always mention a husband, Such as "My husband and I......." Don't let people know you are alone. :!: :!: