Originally Posted by ladyshuffler
Sometimes, like in my case I would have never gone back and I didn't and I am not sorry for it....it doesn't work when it is one sided period!
Even though I believe in making it work, I also believe that there are people out there that are not going to change.
All situations are different. It takes two to tango. Such is my sisters case. She was in an abusive marriage for 30 some years. She is now out and happy. Too bad it took until she was in her mid 50's. But if you can make it work I say work hard at it. It is well worth it.