Marghar...my prayers are with your husband and you! Hope things continue to progress to the good for his health. I have been the caretaker for my DH for 14 years, during this time he has had major surgery or been in the hospital 13 times...along with that I had both my Dad, who was bed ridden the last six months of his life and my Mom to take care of...Don't get me wrong I would not change anything, HOWEVER don't forget to take care of yourself while taking care of him. You can't help him if you are not well! Take care and make your sewing machine sing!!! I am looking forward to the year even though I am SCARED!