Oh gee....it really won't get any better. And, once they are old enough, they DO move out, but they DO sometimes come back. lol
Advice...hmmm...just stay calm. Don't feed into her arguments. Especially in the mornings. It's not a good way to start the day. Maybe when you both are home, after dinner, sit and have a talk with her. Explain your side to her and let her explain her side to you. I know, I know...she'll say...ALL the others are doing it, so why can't I? You'll say...if they all jumped off the Brooklyn Bridge, doesn't mean you have to do it too!
Been there, done that girl!
I know it's hard, but sometimes you just have to pick and choose your battles. If she's wearing something inappropriate, just explain to her that covering up a little isn't going to be such a bad thing. If she wants to wear just a little more makeup, explain to her that facepaint really doesn't make her look any prettier than she already is. It's hard and 13 is a hard age for girls.
I didn't have the problem too much of the "face painting". We had to deal with the dark eyeliner and wanting to dye the hair jet black. UGH!!
Like they say...this too shall pass.
But, the more you argue with her about it, the more adamant she will be to defy you....
Just bite your tongue and like I said...pick and choose your battles.