I agree with many of the folks before me. She needs to be taught how to do basic mending. (buttons, stitching up a split seam, hemming) As for projects, be sure to choose something that is meaningful to her and that she will use. I'm not so sure an apron will be that meaningful to a young girl. Some of the tote bag patterns are very useful and can be VERY cute. My own daughter started with basic pajama pants. Set her up to be successful and she will learn to love it. If she struggles too much she will probably lose interest.