I love the quilt......I've been seriously 'underwhelmed' by responses too. Hope that changes for you. It sorta sucks. And it's hard to pick out the 'quilt people'. I've had friends say flat out to me: Never give me quilt. I'm not a quilt person. I don't like them and I don't want one in my house'. At least she was clear. And when we talked about it turned out she loved the idea of a tablecloth......go figure....