I want to thank you all so much for your stories. I felt like a bad mom but man you would think that me with a bad back they would help out. I have decided to my oldest is just not ready for the responsibility of working her job and school. Looking back over the last 2 weeks is when she started being lax on her chores and respect for her dad and I. Today really showed it in her attitude. I really so appreicate all of you who made a comment about what happened to you or your family it really does help me. I swear it really does take a village to raise children. It means a lot that you would post to help me. Jade!