Dont feel bad MOM i did the same thing. And YES follow thru. idle threats never get them to listen. You didnt actually give them away lol I did! I was an evil Mom but it only took once and i never had to repeat myself. I also laid daown rules with a choice. If you do this , this will happen your choice! I followed thru on ALL choices never giving in. Stick to your guns Mom and dont let them get the upper hand, Your doing ok,,,, no need to feel guilty,,,,, they disobeyed not you. I give ya a pat on the back!!!!!!!!