It is very hard when they move out; your heart aches and you just want them home. However, after they've been gone a while, it will drive you nuts if they return (ask me how I know)! It will get easier as time goes on and, if at some point she does return, you'll look forward to having the peace and quiet, not to mention your house being the way YOU want it to be. I love my kids more than anything in the world, but it's time for them to "fledge," and I keep thinking to myself, "fly little birdy, FLY!" Hang in there!