If I want something done, I usually start it myself. I am rather handy with the hammer drill and saw. Good thing those tools make a lot of noise. My husband will come and be the MAN and attempt to take over. I let him think he is in charge, as long as he understands my plan. My last project he made a few suggestions and was glad for the help. His ideas improved my plan. When I tell him I want to make a change and need his help, he usually puts me off untill I start doing it myself. -- His motivation is the thought I will mess up.