For years I asked my mom questions about family and she wouldn't tell me much. Then just before she passed, she told me a lot of things that I would have been better off not knowing as they just caused me heartache. After she told me these things, she refused to discuss them, so I still don't have any answers, just more questions without answers. I don't know that I will ever get over some of the things that she told me. Sometimes, not knowing every thing is better.