you are all very blessed to know your moms. by the time i met mine she had a stoke and couldn't talk so no answers then before i could see her again she died. i got to see my sister a couple of times and enjoyed her talking on the phone then she had a brain anorism and pasted away last november. i now have a aunt i should write back to but even though it sounds crazy i am to afraid of doing so. seems like each time they die on me.i don't want that to happen to her.know it probally sounds nutty but can't shake the feeling yet. maybe it is best to leave it alone now and better not to of met them.