OK now my DD is 25 but in high school many of the kids did it. They don't sleep in the same room it is usually the girls in a bedroom the guys on the fllor in the family room. and a PARENT UP AT ALL TIMES!!!!!!! I myself for my DD 18th b-day had both guys and girls sleep over. The funny thing is the girls left the bedroom a mess and they guys had the family room all neat and tidy before they left. As long as there are adults and you know the adults I see nothing wrong with it. I ask you how many girls get pregnant at 16 or 17 and they NEVER were at a boy girl sleep over. If they want to do something they will and it would not be in a house with parents.
I also agree with madquilter she told you she could have lied. You have to trust that you raised her right and then you
shouldn't have to worry.
I do have a questionn for all of you who think it is wrong or claim you wouldn't allow your daughter to go to a boy girl sleep over. Where you all Saints???????????? Or is it because you weren't and know what could happen that you feel it is wrong? I don't get it, not every parent in the world did the right thing when they were young but they expect their child to do everything as to not look like a bad kid. I think parents should lighten up. My kids were good kids they were taight right from wrong but they also knew me and their dad were not perfect kids either. I was always open and honest with them. It you are going to drink (when they were legal) don't drive. I never told them to not drink. Getting sloshed is one thing. My DD was having a drink with dinner and she was responsible she took a cab. She would have been better off sloshed out of her mind and driving. She would have been fine and not brain injured today. YES SHE TOOK A CAB and almost died.