Originally Posted by Annaquilts
Added-could it be that she told you because she wants you to be the one to say no? I have found that at times. this makes it easier for her to say no to her friends.
My girls do this quite often, if it makes things easier I don't mind being the mean mom.
Also a similar thing happened around here last summer. The girl wanted mom to say no but she didn't, girl went to the party, was raped and mom was arrested for negligence.