after reading more- it brought to mind one very close situation to confirm my belief not to have sleepovers- bff's dd was 15 and pregnant. ummm- no sleepovers in my house.
I have a fb friend right now that is dealing with her 9 year old daughter being asked to a birthday party. She did not attend, but found out the 9 year olds were playing spin the bottle- and the parents were taking pictures.
Come on- is this good behavior? 9 years old? Parents need to stop making their kids grow up too soon.