For me, it's my dad. I was 23 when my dad died and it'll be 4 years next year. I had my daughter the year after he passed away. My dad's birthday is Nov 9th, and I miss him so much. I was such a Daddy's girl, and I still talk to him every day. I wish I knew more about him.. he was 60 when he died. I had gone to England to visit my husband for a week and when I got back to the States Dad was in a coma and he never came out of it.
I still have his last voicemail to me on my cell phone. I can't delete it. It's also saved on CD, and memory card and on my computer. Somedays I just want to hear his voice and get a hug. That's when I listen to it.