I raised two daughters, six years apart. I let the first one do things because I trusted her and didn't want her to hide things from me. She was killed in a car accident at the age of 18. My second daughter lived by my rules, temper or not. She finished college, bought her own house by the age of 23, got married to a great man and has blessed me with two beautiful grandchildren. She is very strict with her children. The answer would be NO in our house.