Maybe I'm old fashioned as well, but no daughter, or son of mine would be able to spend the night. My kids are grown now, and they hated me a lot when they were growing up, but they turned out great. I think in today's society, so many parents are to liberal. I think that's why we have so many problems with the kids. Good old fashioned spankings, and every kid should hear NO, I million times in there life. So my vote it no. And I think she'll be better off for it.