I have been doing genealogy with my Mom for a long time, so that provided a channel to ask questions and keep communication open. However, few days after my Dad died, I had a dream that I was following him all over their place asking him questions. Each time I asked a question, he would turn and walk to another part of the property, never answering my questions. I awoke abruptly from this dream, screaming at him "Why wont you answer me?"
weird, huh?