I understand perfectly. A bit more time with her/him and some discipline for the younger one will help rectify this. We love our furbabies and deal with what is. We have very old pets in our household; 15 year old dog; 23 year old cat; 16 year old cat so the commitment to pets is long and "peeing on the bed" sometimes comes with it. Kudos to you for trying to work it all out! This too shall pass :?