I am new to this list and a new quilter, but here is a suggestion. When I was working full-time as a nurse and raising six children (while going through a divorce also), it was always hard to get going on anything different. What worked for me was making a list allowing myself time for myself. Set aside one thing a night you need to do but then one night could be dedicated to quilting or your quilting room organization. You may just need to get into the easier world of following a schedule at home. Good luck. Pauline