DO NOT GIVE UP YOUR SEWING ROOM--yes i am shouting--do not feel you have to be sewing when you go into your room--put pen to paper a journal is great to show your self things only a few lines needed--your life is currently over flowing with others needs --15 minits every night guilt free will extend to 20 when you realise the sky is not falling[ as others learn with encouragement !!!to give you that time]