No, there is absolutely NOTHING wrong with not wanting to be married at 21. And, I am a mom of a 21 year old talking. My son was just married last married...he was 28 at the time and married a wonderful young lady who is 31 (and,yes, her first marriage). We have another daughter who will be marrying her high school/ college sweetheart in June. They are both 23 and have dated for years. My youngest (the 21 year old) is having way too much fun as a college junior and looking forward to starting her career to worry much about being in a committed relationship. In fact, she feels sad for her high school friends who are already married, some with children, living in our small town and working at minimum wage jobs. And, no...there is nothing wrong with getting min. wage...her point is that there is a whole world out there and people should see it before they settle down. Don't let anyone make you feel bad.