I do a lot of post-mortem pictures for Hispanic families. They truly revere their dead. It is hard for me, as a graphic artist, when asked to place a dead baby in the arms of the grandmother who just passed. They were thrilled and had it posted at the wake. It seems strange to is because its not our custom. I have it in my will, no one is to see me after I pass, I want them to remember me as I am not in a casket. I wouldn't worry about your daughter. This woman is keeping up with the times and thats what they do today.