Face book may be a little much but it is the new generation, Face book makes me crazy but I wont go into a rant. As far as pics of the deceased it is a cultural thing. while my family does not take pics I could tell you behavior that would curl your hair. When I was first married 29 years ago I thought people aroud here did not love the deceaced because they were so sober and in control . I learned with time that all areas are diffrent in how the handle grief.