Wow.. I know they use to do that in the 1800's to early 1900's, but today?? and post it on facebook???my gosh, I totally agree with you, EXTREMELY tacky. Im sorry your heart is heavy with this, but if she brings it up, I would most certainly tell her how this made you feel, not to mention all the other people she shocked by this disgusting behaviour. You may also want to give your daughter a heads up. BTW...I HATE FACEBOOK. Its really ridiculous in my book. Hugs for you!!