We decided years ago to quit buying for each of the brothers and SIL's and just buy for the kids, but every year I make something for everyone some small something and just hand them out at our Christmas gathering I don't even wrap them and everyone is happy and they don't feel bad about not buying me something. It works for me. They probably made their decision because they are short of money this year seems like everyone is and this is there way of helping those that don't have the money to buy gifts. Your gifts are beautiful and will be greatly apprenciated no sense in starting hard feeling this time of year. JMHO.