I love Amma's response and second the motion. You made the gifts with love in your heart and nothing should take that sentiment from you. It will be a real exercise in gratitude and generosity on your part to give them these gifts regardless of how hurt you might feel. You enjoyed making these gifts (and they are beautiful!) and you shouldn't have any negativity enter into the experience. Just do it like Amma said. If anyone says anything just tell them you had them all made up ahead of getting the instructions. Bless your caring and generous heart!