I can relate. My youngest sister decided one year at Thanksgiving that we should draw names and only give a gift to the person who's name was drawn. I had already made gifts for everyone. I drew a name and that person got 2 gifts from me. When my sister complained saying "I thought we agreed to draw names and give to just that person", I informed her that she had agreed, not me and that I will give a gift to whomever I please, when I please. That was the one and only time we ever drew names!